A Horse Lover’s Guide

Here is a series of articles that I’ve written over the years about horsemanship and achieving harmony and an autotelic experience.

Kristi Smith 10/5/26 Kristi Smith 10/5/26

Relaxation and Healthy Posture: The Foundation of Autotelic Horsemanship

Relaxation and Good Posture: The Foundation of Autotelic Horsemanship

Autotelic horsemanship is rooted in a simple but often overlooked truth: if a horse does not feel good in her body while doing what we ask, harmony does not exist. We may see compliance, obedience, or even performance, but without comfort and relaxation, the experience is not mutually rewarding. And without that, the conversation is incomplete.

Kristi Smith 7/13/26 Kristi Smith 7/13/26

Developing Leadership in Horsemanship

Leadership in horsemanship is one of the most misunderstood concepts in the horse world. Many riders think leadership is about authority, control, or demanding obedience. Yet the finest horsemen and horsewomen—those whose horses move with softness, trust, and confidence—lead with something very different.

Kristi Smith 2/16/26 Kristi Smith 2/16/26

Embracing the Journey in Horsemanship: Why the Process Matters More Than the Outcome

In horsemanship, it’s easy to become fixated on outcomes. A quiet ride. A finished maneuver. A confident horse. While goals have their place, real and lasting progress comes from something deeper: embracing the journey itself.